Markus Raab
Hey, I don't think CloudFlare has anything to do with this at all.
We never make a request to your site. What's important is that your site can make requests correctly to our update server. Security plugins could cause this.
To force an update check, what you can do is deactivate & activate CommandUI, that will clear the internal cache that's used to not make too many update checks.
That's what I'd recommd first. Try if deactivate then activating shows the update (maybe refresh the page a couple times as well).
If not, deactivate security plugins, and test again.